Trying to get back with your ex? A thoughtful gift can go a long way. Follow these tips to find the perfect gift for an ex-girlfriend you miss.

Have you been thinking about your ex a lot lately? Is she the one who got away? A thoughtful gift for an ex-girlfriend can be just the thing you need to rekindle that relationship.

Depending on the circumstances of your breakup, you will need to put some thought and consideration into your gift. A genuine, well-suited gift will go a long way in letting her know that you still care.

Here, we've got some great tips to help you find a gift that is just right.

Consider the Circumstances of the Breakup

Before you begin shopping, take the circumstances of the breakup into consideration.

Was there a valid reason for the breakup, or did you simply seem to grow apart?

Breakups happen for all sorts of reasons. Some breakups are because of one person, while others happen because of both parties involved.

You'll be able to decide on the best gift by considering all aspects of your breakup first.

Incompatibility

Sometimes couples find that after a long period together, they are no longer compatible.

Even if there is still attraction between the two of you, incompatibility can lead to many disagreements.

It's entirely possible for incompatibility to be resolved with understanding and compromise.

Infidelity

More serious reasons for a breakup can affect your efforts to win her back.

Infidelity can be difficult for partners to overcome, as broken trust takes a lot of time and work to rebuild. Though reconciliation isn't always possible, it will certainly be a challenge.

You'll need to reflect on why an infidelity occurred in the first place and what you can do to ensure it will never happen again.

You'll also have to be willing to commit time, effort, and much patience to earning her trust again.

Communication and Lack of Romance

If your breakup occurred for more general reasons, you'll have a better chance of changing her mind.

You'll also be able to work on any misunderstandings or shortcomings that may have prompted the breakup.

Communication and romance issues can be solved with effort and patience.

Romance and intimacy are closely intertwined, and both are the result of heartfelt understanding and good communication.

No matter what caused the split, there's always hope. You can initiate a reconciliation with a thoughtful, sweet gift to let her know you're still thinking of her.

Consider Your Ex's Personality and Preferences

While a kind gift is wonderful for showing her that she still has your heart, it must be something that she would appreciate.

A random, ill-thought gift won't seem genuine and your efforts will be quickly dismissed.

You don't want your gift to seem shallow or showy.

The gift should truly express that you want her back and are willing to go the distance to prove that it's worth giving your relationship another chance.

Look for Something Unique and High Quality

Unique gifts are a great place to start when rekindling a romance that has ended.

Finding something for her that is a little out of the ordinary shows that you think she is special and deserves special things.

While you don't want to be overly extravagant and come across as a show-off, you certainly don't want to look cheap, either.

Your gift should be valuable, meaningful, and high-quality.

Never buy a gift for an ex-girlfriend that is cheap, hastily selected, or common. Buying a bad gift isn't going to get you very far when trying to win back your love.

Gifts That Touch the Heart

There are millions of things from which you could choose when shopping for your ex, but there are a few gifts that are classically romantic and sweet.

Flowers

Bringing a woman flowers is a timeless gesture of love and affection.

Whether it's a rich bouquet of velvety roses or a small cluster of a particular flower she loves, flowers make a statement.

Where, when, and how flowers should be delivered depends on her personality.

If she enjoys surprises, she may be delighted by receiving flowers at work.

However, if she's the quiet, private type, have them delivered to her at home, or bring them to her at home yourself.

Flowers That Last Forever

Flowers are beautiful, but they eventually wilt and die.

If you love the idea of flowers, but would like to find a gift for an ex-girlfriend that will last, consider flowers that never fade.

We don't mean cheap, artificial flower arrangements. Give her real roses that will remain beautiful always.

Eternity Roses are stunning roses that have been preserved and either glazed and trimmed with gold, or completely coated in a precious metal like gold, silver or platinum, for a lifetime of beauty.

They are also placed in a handsome leather case for a lovely gift that will melt her heart.

Jewellery

Jewellery is an age-old way to gift a woman, especially one who you love dearly. It's a beautiful way to tell her that she deserves to be adored and cherished.

Always keep her personal tastes in mind and go for something unique. If you don't, your gift will seem impersonal and she'll be reminded of why your relationship failed in the first place.

A Gorgeous Combination

Can't decide between flowers and jewellery? Luckily, you don't have to pick just one.

We have carefully crafted stunning earrings and pendant necklaces from gold-trimmed, glazed miniature rose petals.

These 24 karat gold-trimmed jewellery pieces are both elegant and classic.

Still can't decide? If you'd like to give her a gift she'll never forget, we offer matched sets in a variety of colours that include a rose, earrings, and a pendant.

Finding the Perfect Gift for an Ex-girlfriend

You need to invest time into being the best partner you can if you want to successfully reunite with your ex, but a wonderful gift is a great place to start.

You may also wish to explore our blog for more valuable relationship tips and advice.

I would love to hear your comments or answer any questions you might have about this post.

Yours sincerely,   


Dr. Carissa Coulston, Clinical Psychologist

BSc(Hons), MPsychol(Clinical), PhD, MAPS